I thought I'd write a post every now and then about the givens in Lucy's life -- things that I don't bother mentioning in the posts because they happen every day, frequently, or regularly. These are constantly changing -- having a kid is a continuing exercise in adapting to the New Normal.
So here are some things that are so normal they don't even warrant a mention in my daily posts (so they may or may not get one).
Once a week:
*We go to the grocery stores (usually Target and a natural foods store in town).
*We babysit Baby Henry at our house.
*We go to the library to borrow a stack of children's books (mostly picture books), one children's DVD, one read-along book/CD, and to attend story time and play with the toys.
*Lucy goes to be babysat at Baby Henry's house.
*I leave Lucy with Norman for several hours to go ice skating.
*We go to church (and Lucy usually goes to Sunday School).
Every day:
*Lucy wakes up before we do, gets herself a banana (which I usually open for her while half-asleep), and usually dresses herself.
*Lucy eats when she is hungry, and often gets her own snacks (crackers, cheese sticks, fruit, nuts, etc).
*Lucy spends time talking to or about her imaginary friends, who are all characters from TV shows, movies, or books. There are A LOT of them.
*Lucy watches TV. Unless we are just out of the house all day long. She gets to pick something to watch after lunch. The kind of stuff she watches: Sesame Street, Blue's Clues, The Muppets (2011), Tangled, Despicable Me, Charlie & Lola, Between the Lions, VeggieTales. Some of this is on DVD (some we own, some we get from the library), some is on Netflix on our Wii, and every now and then she wants to watch something that I converted from VHS to our external hard drive, which means she has to borrow my laptop to watch. Sometimes she watches stuff all afternoon until around 4pm, sometimes she only wants to watch one half-hour show.
*Lucy draws, sticks stickers, and/or cuts paper. She has free access to a whole bunch of paper, stickers, writing implements, and some safety scissors. She usually takes advantage of this fact at least once a day.
*Lucy changes her clothes. A lot. She's free to take things out of her dresser, she can climb up some storage tubs and take dresses out of her closet, and she has a bunch of dress-up stuff in her playroom. She probably changes clothes 5 times a day.
*Lucy entertains herself. She is fairly free to roam the house. She's allowed to climb on top of the coffee table, climb over the back of the couch and take the cushions off of it. There are some things we don't let her play with, and she's not allowed in my craft room (mostly for safety reasons). But she's really good at finding something to do if I need to do some work.
*Lucy takes care of her bodily functions. She's pretty well potty-trained at this point and usually makes it to the toilet before her bladder gives out. She
never has #2 accidents, she never wets the bed, and she never has an accident in public.
I think that about covers it. Expect another update when the Givens change!